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1 Is never disrespectful to anyone, EVER. Especially me.
2 Has an overall optimistic attitude about life
3 Clicks well with me on levels that I can’t even describe
4 We converse well with each other
5 Appreciates when I am supportive towards her issues
6 Meshes well with a perfectionist… I try to curb it but it’s part of who I am
7 Doesn’t consider herself a “bad girl” — I’ve never been attracted to bad girls
8 Can easily tell when I’m joking/kidding… I joke around a fair amount
9 Has a college degree
10 Would never, ever, EVER hit me… wouldn’t even think of hitting me
11 Trusts me completely
12 Fully understands the meaning of foreplay
13 Doesn’t smoke
14 Sincerely appreciates me for all that I am
15 Sarcastic!
16 Doesn’t expect me to tag along with her everywhere… I have my own stuff to do
17 Doesn’t get bothered that I do swear sometimes
18 Is culturally aware
19 Is not part of an organized religion
20 Ideally a republican
21 Likes to be around my family… they’re fun!
22 Appreciates and respects her mother
23 Has a separate life from mine but our lives mesh well together
24 Understands that I sometimes feel the need to tell people off… I try not to, but it happens sometimes
25 Likes to stay in shape, or at least strives to stay in shape
26 Has a decent paying job… I obviously don’t mooch as I have a job of my own, but it’s nice being with someone who is financially stable
27 Doesn’t have kids from a previous relationship
28 Appreciates history, social issues and politics
29 Protects me when necessary
30 Likes to kiss (and is great at it)
31 Treats me as her equal…
32 Likes that I will eat a lot sometimes but that I take care of my body and stay healthy
33 Enjoys taking control in the bedroom about 40% of the time. ;o)
34 Wants to travel to Europe eventually
35 Enjoys teaching me new things, but not in a condescending manner
36 Doesn’t mind that my fashion sense sucks a lot
37 Enjoys a sporting event every once in a while but is not a football maniac or someone who has to watch sports every weekend.
38 Plans special weekend getaways every once in a while and knows that I will do the same
39 Has a sexy figure
40 Understands that I like to be independent but still crave comfort at the end of the day
41 Likes to play
42 Types efficiently
43 Sincerely listens to what I have to say and knows that I will do the same for her
44 Likes to hold my hand… even if we’re hanging out on the couch or something
45 Has nice friends that are not disrespectful
46 Kisses me slowly but knows when to kick it up a notch… or five
47 Doesn’t constantly complain about life… or even little stuff
48 Knows when I go out with friends that she can trust me
49 Knows when/how to use the phrases I love you, thank you, and I’m sorry
50 Understands how to deal with me when I go through a depression
51 Preferably doesn’t drink alcohol, but if she does she drinks responsibly
52 Preferably does not have any tattoos, but if she does… they definitely shouldn’t involve ex-boyfriends
53 If we’re mad at each other, she has the decency to want to discuss the problem
54 Likes to workout together sometimes
55 Knows how to cook a little bit, but also has faith in my ability to cook a decent meal
56 Younger than me
57 Appreciates that I am a little hard to handle sometimes
58 Enjoys holding me at night… but not allllllllll night.
59 Keeps her hair long… but not too long
60 No opera, or folk music please…
61 Likes listening to jazz every once in a while
62 Someone who is a lot like my mom
63 Knows that I don’t mind when she complements another male
64 Gives great massages
65 Is turned off by ditzy girls and guys that like to show off.
66 Doesn’t feel that we need to be around each other all of the time but appreciates the time that we do spend together
67 Lets me know when she wants a little space or some time alone…not a big deal
68 Has several hobbies
69 Knows when to act appropriately in public…
70 Would like to own a dog
71 Keeps her house/apartment clean…
72 Doesn’t do things to make me jealous and knows that I follow the same rule
73 Likes to stay up late talking every once in a while
74 Doesn’t swear directly at me. Ever. Period.
75 Cries every once in a while
76 Holds me when if I were to cry
77 Doesn’t purposely start fights with other girls but will finish them if needed
78 Has relatively nice handwriting
79 Pulls me close to her when we kiss
80 Knows the difference between sex and making love.
81 Is ok with doing nothing every once in a while
82 Can forgive and forget (doesn’t hold a grudge)
83 Likes kids, loves their own unconditionally
84 Believes in strict monogamous relationships
85 Doesn’t need constant reassurance. (Is secure with herself)
86 Understands family is super important.
87 Likes spontaneous adventure and surprises.
88 Is ok with the fact that I am sort of computer geek.
89 Supports and encourages me to obtain my dreams and life goals.
90 Is supportive in good times as well as when things are tough.
91 Smiles at me for no specific reason.
92 Takes initiative.
93 Is willing and feels comfortable enough to talk to me openly about her deepest desires, secrets, etc.
94 Listens contently rather than just hear me.
95 Whips me into shape when I am clearly out of line.
96 Recognizes all my imperfections and still stands by me %100
97 Never settles
98 Is ok with buying generic brand products.
99 Knows that I love her even if I don’t say it as much as I should.
100 Calls me unique pet names known by just the two of us.
101 Is willing to help others without being asked to do so.
102 Wears perfume (the good stuff, and not too much of it)
103 Understands relationships require compromise and sacrifice.
104 Defends me when others are smearing me.
105 Is ok with PDA
106 Uses very little makeup, if any at all
107 She acknowledges my feelings and validates them
108 Spends at least 20 minutes everyday talking with me without any outside interruptions.
109 Doesn’t assume I can read her mind
110 One word: Chocolate
111 Knows the power of the “little things” and does them often.
112 Is a hopeless romantic
113 Gives me room to make mistakes
114 Doesn’t expect me to know all the answers
115 Stands up for herself
116 Thinks before she speaks
117 Has goals and dreams for the future
118 Stands firmly on her own two feet but isn’t afraid to ask for my help when she needs it
119 Knows when to fight and when to surrender
120 Can apoligize if needed
121 Doesn’t need to drag me shopping with her (especially when it’s clothes shopping for her)
123 Enjoy’s the occasional road trip, but doesn’t really like to travel (other than vacation)
124 Knows the extreme intoxicating power of the color red
125 Would wear red lingerie for me (or any lingerie for that matter)
126 Is verbal during love making and/or sex
127 Can agree to disagree
128 Would agree to and partisipate in couples counseling even if the relationship was going extremely well
129 Would be my biggest cheerleader
130 Would hold me accountable when I procastinate
131 Belives in fate (everything happens for a reason)
132 Has an imagination without boundries
133 Has a sence of justice
134 Has a deep concern for everyone she loves
135 Able to give honest criticism when I ask
136 Has a willingness to try new things
137 Ability to change her mind (not too stubborn)
138 Has a good fashion sence (a sense of style)
139 Ability to take a stand
140 Belief in herself
141 Belief in me
142 Sence of fair play
143 Knows the signifgance of the number ‘143′
144 Sence of community
145 Has a generous nature
146 Courage
147 Passion
148 Ability to know what to say and do when I need comforting
149 Ability to inspire me
150 Shaves her legs more often than not
151 Doesn’t lie to me
152 Put’s up with my humor
153 Makes a mean dinner
154 Drives when I ask her to
155 Allows a television in the bedroom
156 Every once in a while allows music when falling asleep
157 Know’s when to hold’em
158 Know’s when to fold’em
159 Knows when to walk away
160 Knows when to run
161 Is creative in the kitchen
162 Listens to my advice (sometimes)
163 Is kind to strangers
164 Is a night person like me
165 Is not overly happy in the morning
166 Doesn’t fix what’s not broken
167 Has similar political views as me
168 Likes (wireless) gadgets
169 Lets me buy new geek toys
170 Doesn’t hog the covers
171 Supports my wacky endeavors
172 Gets jealous when I talk to other women
173 Looks before she leaps
174 Doesn’t forward chain mail / email jokes
175 Believes in moderation
176 Doesn’t always agree with me
177 Knows spirituality is different from religion
178 Doesn’t force me to go grocery shopping
179 Loves Christmas as much as I do (a lot!)
180 Can keep a level head in trying situations
181 Doesn’t expect me to do everything
182 Can finish my sentences
183 Always looks for and finds the positive in everything
184 Can make me laugh or smile even at times when I don’t want to
185 Refuses to ever completely grow up
186 Can open up her heart and life to me
187 Is as much of a dreamer as I am
188 Doesn’t take life too seriously and lives for the moment
189 Not afraid to be an (educated) risk-taker
190 Has a BIG heart
191 Determination and conviction: Once she sets her mind on something, nobody can change it

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